5 Essential Questions to Ask Your Private Lender

Posted by Residential Capital Partners on Jul 15, 2025 9:12:33 AM
 
Choosing the right private lender is one of the most important decisions you’ll make as a real estate investor. The lender you partner with can either accelerate your growth or slow it down with delays, unclear terms, or a lack of experience. Beyond rates and funding amounts, it’s about finding a true investment partner—someone who understands your goals, moves at your speed, and adds value beyond the loan itself. Whether you're flipping your first property or scaling a portfolio, here are five things you should know about your private lender before signing on the dotted line. 


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1. Is Your Lender a Balance Sheet Lender?

Understanding the source of your lender's capital is vital. A balance sheet lender, like Residential Capital Partners, uses their own funds to finance loans, which often means more reliable access to capital, fewer delays, and terms that aren’t dictated by outside investors or Wall Street. This can be a major advantage in competitive markets or volatile economic times. In contrast, brokers or non-direct lenders rely on third-party funding, which can lead to stricter underwriting, inconsistent terms, or even last-minute loan withdrawals. Choosing a balance sheet lender gives you peace of mind that the capital will be there when you need it and keeps you in the driver's seat.

2. How Transparent Are Their Terms?

Clarity in loan terms is non-negotiable. You should receive a detailed term sheet well in advance of closing, outlining the full cost of the loan including interest rates, fees, timelines, and any required documentation. A trustworthy lender won’t bury key information in fine print or introduce new terms at the last minute. Transparency not only builds trust but also helps you accurately project your profit margins and timeline, reducing the risk of unpleasant surprises once your project is underway.

3. Do They Offer Strategic Guidance?

The best private lenders do more than just write checks. They act as strategic partners who understand your business and provide guidance that can help you succeed. Look for a lender with experience in real estate investing—someone who can help evaluate a property, discuss rehab scope, or flag potential red flags in your plan. Especially if you’re newer to the fix-and-flip or rental investment space, having a lender who offers advice (not just funding) can be the difference between a successful deal and a very costly mistake.

4. What’s Their Track Record in Market Downturns?

Every investor knows that markets shift. What you may not know is how your lender reacts when the market softens. Do they continue lending during downturns, or do they pull back? A lender’s history during periods of uncertainty speaks volumes about their reliability. Ask for examples or testimonials from clients who worked with them through challenging economic conditions. 

At ResCap, we remained a steady and reliable lending partner through both the 2008 housing crisis and the uncertainty of the 2020 pandemic. During those times, we funded countless deals for investors whose original lenders either backed out last minute or changed terms unexpectedly at the closing table. Resilience and integrity go a long way in this business.

5. How Do They Handle Communication and Support?

Communication can make or break your experience with a lender. Before committing, ask how often you can expect updates, who your main point of contact will be, and how responsive they are during critical stages like underwriting or funding. The right lender should feel like an extension of your own team—easy to reach, quick to respond, and proactive in providing the support you need. When issues or questions arise (and they will), knowing you have a responsive, solutions-oriented partner can save you time, money, and stress.


In conclusion, selecting the right private lender is a far more involved process than simply comparing interest rates. By asking these essential questions, you can identify a partner who not only provides reliable capital but also contributes to your long-term success in real estate investing.
 

At Residential Capital Partners, we pride ourselves on offering experienced, transparent, and relationship-focused lending to real estate investors across the country. Let’s partner to make your next project your most profitable one yet!
 
 

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